I loved my engagement party. My family, of which my guest list was comprised, helped create my first cookbook. I reference this book religiously and house only my best-tested recipes there.
My cousin helped organize the event and sent recipe cards (belonging to the book in question), along with the invitations out to my family. Each was then instructed to fill out the cards with their favorite family recipes, which helped fill up my cookbook.
Yes, I remember receiving other, non cookbook-related items, but it’s the cookbook and the recipes that I cherish the most.
I discovered another great engagement party idea, while sifting through some old memorabilia belonging to my grandmother. My great-grandmother was a DIY pioneer. Creativity flowed from her in ways that I could never aspire. She had no limits to her creativity. She seemed to master most mediums, and could use almost anything as her canvas. I remember a ceramic vase that she painted an unbelievable landscape around, that I’m sure would be challenging to even the most studied artist. But my most coveted piece of artwork, hands down, belongs to the customized place cards she created for my grandmother’s engagement party. My grandmother married in the 20’s, and in the spirit of the era, was given place cards that resembled she and my grandfather in flapper regalia, kissing discreetly behind a fan assembled with mesh and hot pink feathers. The card, itself, was done in watercolor, while the fan was created with mesh glued to the back of the place cards. This was a bridge luncheon, held in my grandmother’s honor, and the place cards helped announce my grandparent’s pending nuptials. Guests believed they were just attending for bridge, so the announcement, posted on the cards at the game table, came as a surprise.
I read that the flapper theme carried over on score pads, as well as coasters and that the guests enjoyed finger sandwiches, lemonade and salted almonds.
Today, I’m sure that there would be more popular card games to play, but I love the interactivity of a card game for an engagement party. The personal touch of hand-made place cards was just a bonus.

(The card had my grandparents names, inscribed in ink, below each of their heads, with their wedding city inscribed on the lower left hand side of the fan and their wedding date inscribed on the lower right.)